A balanced state of mind…..

The whole world begins to crumble when things do not happen the way you want it to happen..

Frustration sets in  accompanied with anger & irritation….The same persons whom you had loved & cared for ,till yesterday, seem to you like enemies today…..They have absolutely not changed but it is your way of looking at them….It sounds weird ,but yes,it does happen….You feel like crawling into your own shell, but there is no peace even there……You feel ,people are looking at you very strangely, whereas ,the truth is they are busy in their own lives & have no inkling at all about the state you are in……

The problem is, when you are happy, you look at the positive side of things & when you are down & unhappy, everything seems to look topsy turvy…..To come out of this state , takes a lot of will power, courage & self confidence which, however hard you try, doesn’t surface up at that point of time .. 

Instead of looking & introspecting your state, you are busy searching for the opinion of others…What will others think of you , is the main question that keeps bothering you……Instead of trying to come out of this depressed state , you search for solutions outside you …You are so engrossed in the outside world that you forget your own ,pure self……

To be completely balanced in whatever state you are in, is the true key to happiness……That is God’s will……He wanted it to be that way….Leaving it at this, you have to move forward ….What has happened is something for the good that is in store for you ahead…..Yes, you may say ,it is easy to preach……….Absolutely agreed, but just contemplate……Past is phase that has gone & cannot be amended so why not forget & look forward……What others think is their opinion which you cannot change……But ,you can definitely make changes in yourself…….

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